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- BEHAVIOR, Page 53COVER STORIESCan A Man Be Raped?
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- One answer, of course, is yes -- by another man. In fact by
- some estimates, 10% of rape victims are men, though they rarely
- report the crime. But the interesting question, in light of the
- current debate, is how a man could be raped by a woman.
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- Most men would say, with physiological confidence, that if
- a man doesn't want to have sex, he can't be tied down and
- forced. Human anatomy provides him a special protection. But
- there are sex therapists who dispute this notion; some point to
- "masochistic titillation," while others speculate that panic,
- along with fear of bodily harm, does not necessarily rule out
- sexual arousal and may even increase it in some cases.
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- In any event, the most expansive definitions of rape
- include psychological coercion, which raises the question,
- Couldn't a woman emotionally pressure a man to have sex, by, for
- instance, impugning his manhood if he refused, and thus be
- guilty of rape?
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- If the word is given to mean unwanted sex, then men are
- vulnerable too. A 1988 study of sexually active college students
- found that 46.3% of the women and 62.7% of the men reported
- having had unwanted intercourse. Peer pressure, coercion,
- intimidation -- all led students into situations they later
- regretted.
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- Some researchers fear that even raising the question
- trivializes the whole issue of rape. But there are paradoxes
- here that might shed light on the issue. How is it that when an
- adolescent boy is coerced into sleeping with an older woman, it
- is viewed with a wink as an accepted rite of passage, while the
- reverse -- the coercion of a girl by an older man -- is clearly
- not?
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